I use pleasure to transform.

Pleasure can be any number of feelings.

Pleasure can just be physical sexual pleasure, or it can be just a really good feeling of confidence.

It could be a feeling of completion,
It could be a combination of those things.

Pleasure is subjective to the person.


Let’s take smoking cessation as an example.

So old school hypnosis was all about creating aversion anchors. Saying something like “each and every time that you smoke a cigarette, you’re going to feel nauseous and you’re going to feel like crap, you get to have that taste of ash in your mouth,” you get the idea.

This is what’s called negative reinforcement.

Negative reinforcement works really really well for a very short time, because eventually you’re gonna be like, “fuck this I I’m an adult, I work, I pay taxes. I’m stressed out and I want to have a cigarette, I’m gonna have a cigarette screw what that guy says.”

You’re gonna self sabotage, because you have no filter against yourself and you will convince yourself that this behavior is okay, even if other parts of you know it’s not great for you.

Which means all the work that your hypnosis has done goes right out the window. That’s negative reinforcement.


Now if I say “every single time that you want to have that cigarette and you say, No, no, no, we’re not, we’re not going to do that. We don’t do that anymore. You’re going to get this wonderful rush of pleasure right up your spine. It’s just going to hit your brain. It’s just gonna create a beautiful shower of chemicals. Good feeling chemicals. Like you’re gonna get goose pimples all over. It’s like whoo!!! That’s gonna be incredible”. You think they’re going to go for that cigarette?

No!

It works because we’re fulfilling what they need. Because the cigarette can’t give that to them. They give it to the cigarette so the cigarette can give it back to them. Really what’s happening is the cigarette has now become an anchor. Anchors are very, very powerful.

For example, when I was quitting smoking, I had a half a pencil and I would sit and I would like pretend to smoke on the pencil and it would relax me. I would feel that same sense of peace and calm that was there and in the cigarette smoking. It let me keep the ritual without the bad habit. Eventually I realized it was silly and I could just feel good because I wanted to, it wasn’t about the cigarette or the pencil.

That cigarette is not going to give them what they just felt. They gave it to themselves. The feeling is the thing that they’re looking for. Whether it’s the relaxation, the pleasure, the sense of connection to body and self. You can get that without the cigarette. The pleasure, it’s right there. It’s available. They don’t need the cigarettes to find those things anymore. You’ve returned their power to them.

We are constantly making these anchors for ourselves and most of the time it’s unconscious.

What behaviors do you do, just to find pleasure? What could be possible if you understood (as you do now) that you can create that pleasure at will?

I’m so excited for the next season of The JoyGasmic Life podcast. 

On the lineup are:

Brittney Lyn Aldridge about her orgasmic birth, how taking control of your birth experience and surrendering to the path of pleasure can radically shift your birth outcomes and empower you as a woman

Chris Minor about how hypnosis can enhance pleasure and orgasms. Plus a primer on how to get started with erotic hypnosis. 😉

Sonja Shradha Devi about how being conscious of womb space can change our experience of being a woman (and deepen our relationship to self, soul and pleasure!)

@sarah schmid about her journey to being a homebirthing mom of 8 (including twins at home!) and how the Weston Price diet has informed her choices for her family’s nutrition

Ima Naviah Rose on her orgasmic homebirth and the journey of conscious conception.

I’m creating this season to conscious women who are wanting to let go of cultural programs of “birth=pain” and step into sovereignty around their pleasure and their bodies.

Please help me reach the right people by tagging a friend who is pregnant, or a human who would be a good fit to share their story in this next season.

You can check out last season (all about conscious motherhood, nutrition and mental health) at elenaharderr.com/podcast

Are you scared to make the leap into homeschooling and specifically self-directed learning?  
It feels scary to trust that your children will learn what they need to learn to thrive. But keeping your kids in the antiquated, authoritarian and bully-filled traditional school system is no longer working. Traditional homeschooling / parent-led learning is a good next step but there’s an even better way. 

Being a homeschooling mom can be difficult and lonely sometimes.  It’s an overwhelming responsibility to educate one’s child.  

Lizz experienced a transformation as a worldschooling mom of 11 year old twin girls when she encountered a self-directed global online school called Galileo.  

Galileo is the innovative online global school for 8-18 year old Self-Directed Learners which gives students the freedom to learn and excel at what interests them and prepares them for the future by exposing them to entrepreneurship, technology and global citizenship.

Galileo helps children around the world learn what they are passionate about so they can learn deeper, create more, be more fulfilled, prepare for the jobs and businesses of the future, become global citizens and never lose the love of learning. 

Lizz shares how it was a huge relief off her shoulders to find a program that educates her children in a way that fits her life philosophy yet, as a busy working single mom, she doesn’t have to do all the heavy lifting. Her kids are now happy, socializing with their classmates, learning tons and on their way to becoming the best future versions of themselves.  

She was so inspired with the idea of Galileo, that she joined the founding team.  She has helped with various tasks and roles including strategy, marketing, community development and on boarding new families. 

Many families are hesitant about making the leap into self-directed learning (also known as unschooling) and nervous about trusting that their children will learn what they need to learn to thrive. But it’s very possible and it is working for many enlightened and trailblazing families. Lizz helps guide these families who want a better and happier way for kids to learn and be prepared for the future.  

 

Many of these families have already been homeschooling, unschooling and worldschooling for a while. These families were looking for a larger and more global community and resources than they could obtain on their own. Now, due to Covid, some public and private school families are leaving those systems and joining as well. As long as they embrace the philosophy of self-directed learning, and won’t coerce their children to learn something they are not interested in, they are welcome. 

Galileo is only a year old but already has 135 students in 28 countries throughout 6 continents and growing rapidly.

The team behind Galileo also produces the free Homeschooling Global Summit. It was the 2019 Summit that inspired them to launch the Galileo school based on the findings of the information and knowledge they gained from interviewing 80+ homeschooling and alternative education experts on the best way for children to learn. 

To find out more about Galileo, families can watch Lizz’s recorded Q&A session here. Registration on Galileo’s website is required. 

Check out Galileo’s Youtube channel for more videos to learn more about Clubs, Nanodegrees and to meet some of students and teachers. 

Meet some Galileo parents by watching webinars on how their children are learning. 

Once you are convinced that Galileo is the best way for your kids to learn and thrive, apply to enroll here. Mention Lizz Quain’s name and get $100 off your first month’s tuition per student!

 

 

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Being a parent is hard.  We often live lost in a fear of judgement, fear of uncertainty and the fear of evolving.  Maybe you feel that you do not have their shit together, yet you are supposed to be the adults, parents, or leaders in your family 

If you’ve ever felt “I am overwhelmed, I have no time, I feel stuck, I feel alone.” This is for you.  We will dive into Self-reliance, Self-confidence, Self-love, Self-care and how you can set up these four foundations and how life unfolds more clearly for you afterwards. 

Conscious Parenting, Awakening of the Authentic Self, and Self-Optimisation.

Empowering parents to live their dreams and not put it on hold just because they have children now.
+ Improving their relationships around them so they do not feel like they are connected in a physical sense but disconnected at an emotional level.
+ How to nature themselves and their children to operate as a team of amazing individuals.
+ My adventures, triumphs and struggles in the above learning experiences.
+ That we do not have to do this alone, community is something we need to move back into for raising children.,

Instagram: faraaz4real
Website: http://www.aspiretoconnect.com
Courses: aspiretoconnect.teachable.com

Natalia is a Feminine Leadership Coach. She coaches women to lead using their Feminine Power. Once women discover how powerful the feminine truly is, they discover the secret to their ‘effortless power’ and stop wasting time and energy on ‘powerless effort’ that eventually burns them out, breaks down their bodies and relationships.

This is for you if you struggle with:

  • anxiety, panic attacks, overwhelm from your workload
  • exhaustion from having too many things to do all the time
  • disappointment in not achieving the results you want for your lifestyle business

What Will You Learn?

  • How to show up powerfully and have charisma out of this world
  • Create powerful relationships
  • Take powerful leaps in their business or career and break glass ceiling

What is the most important thing for us to share in our interview? How sexual energy is the fuel for all of the above and how it’s power has been hidden behind shame and poor education.

How do listeners get a hold of you?

nataliakantor.com

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Are you dealing with anxiety, panic attacks or overwhelm from your workload?  How about exhaustion from having too many things to do all the time? And even when you do get the results, it often feels like a disappointment in not achieving the results…

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Let's face it... being a parent is hard.  We often live lost in a fear of judgement, fear of uncertainty and the fear of evolving past our challenges.

Maybe you feel that you do not have your shit together, yet you are supposed to be the adults, parents, or leaders in your family. Maybe you find yourself living in scarcity, while chasing significance and security you are creating a life of fear & stress.

If you find yourself saying:
I am overwhelmed,
I have no time,
I feel stuck,
I feel alone.

This is for you. Faraaz and I dive into Self-reliance, Self-confidence, Self-love and Self-care. When you set up these four foundations, then life unfolds more clearly for them.

Find out more about Faraaz and how he loves to help empowering parents to live their dreams and not put it on hold just because they have children now.

+ Improving their relationships around them so they do not feel like they are connected in a physical sense but disconnected at an emotional level.
+ How to nature themselves and their children to operate as a team of amazing individuals.
+ His adventures, triumphs and struggles in the above learning experiences.
+ That we do not have to do this alone, community is something we need to move back into for raising children.

Instagram: faraaz4real
Website: www.aspiretoconnect.com
Courses: aspiretoconnect.teachable.com

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How do you make a change if you’re scared of being stuck getting the same results. Could you actually make meaningful changes in your relationship, vocation, finances, fitness, health, mindset. 

What if your whole life has changed in ways they never could of imagined. 

Tara Philips has over 25 years studying and working as a practitioner in energy and holistic medicine, yoga and meditation teacher.  She became an Ayurveda Coach since 2007, Studied and graduated in Mastery University with Robbins International (Tony Robbins).

She now teaches and mentors with the world leader in human potential, Bob Proctor. 
She teaches mindset success, Universal Laws, Subconscious Mind, Success, Leadership. 

Tarapilling.com 
Tara Pilling Consulting (instagram)
LIVE fb page (go live daily) Proctor Gallagher Success Consulting
Business Facebook page – Tara Pilling Consulting 
tara@tarapilling.com

Ever felt like your life was on repeat? There are many areas that this can show up in 2020..  Your relationships, vocation, finances, fitness, health or mindset. When you get to the root cause of the repeat, it is something that can change your life in ways you never could have imagined.

Check out my episode of The Joygasmic Life Podcast, and 50+ others from The Joygasmic Podcast season “Overcoming Common Conscious Mothering Challenges". Many of the episodes deal with alternative ways to solve common issues that mothers (and other guardians) face when it comes to blissfully living their ideal mental health, nutrition, mindset and personal power after kids!  

The season covers hypnosis, diet changes, getting your kids to eat, the challenges of mothering “special kids”, myasms, stories of mayhem, finding self love, the importance of nature, releasing trauma patterns, and a deep dive into the workings of family trauma healing and the importance of flow in feminine power. 

Tara Philips has over 25 years studying and working as a practitioner in energy and holistic medicine, yoga and meditation teacher.  She became an Ayurveda Coach since 2007, Studied and graduated in Mastery University with Robbins International (Tony Robbins).

She now teaches and mentors with the world leader in human potential, Bob Proctor. 
She teaches mindset success, Universal Laws, Subconscious Mind, Success, Leadership. 

Website: Tarapilling.com 
Instagram: Tara Pilling Consulting
Business Facebook: Tara Pilling Consulting
Email: tara@tarapilling.com

Danielle is an expert in Family Nutrition and picky eating.  She helps parents that are worried that their child have nutrient deficiencies. We also cover whether picky eating is okay, or needs to be squashed.  How to feed kids who wont eat, whether you should trick your kids to eat things.  All so you can feel so much more relaxed and make meals more fun.

Armed with her great tools, we can be empowered to be conscious parents who raise kids who love explore new foods without any fight.

Website: daniellebinns.com

Product: The Food Explorer Placemat

Webinar: Picky Eater Protocol Webinar 

Membership: Raising Adventurers Eaters Club

Energy Reboot for Parents

How do you make a change if you’re scared of being stuck getting the same results. Could you actually make meaningful changes in your relationship, vocation, finances, fitness, health, mindset. What if your whole life has changed in ways they never…

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Danielle is an expert in Family nutrition and picky eating who helps parents that are worried their child will have nutrient deficiencies. We also cover whether picky eating is okay, or needs to be squashed.  How to feed kids who wont eat, so you can…

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Chris supports his clients through hypnosis with anything from smoking, to weight loss, to sexual issues and anxiety/depression/ptsd. 

In this episode Chris takes me through a process to believe that I can do what I want to in business.  

We also talk about the viability of hypnosis as a mental health solution.

Facebook is @zenleveltherapy
Website is http://www.zenleveltherapy.com

We all need a space to be with ourselves, and sometimes it is hard to find it.

Ana Orzoco is an executive, transformational coach and social entrepreneur.  She helps others with not being appreciated, finding self love, and not getting the results they want.

She helps them find space to connect with themselves, more self love, and consciousness,

After 15 years of experience in business consulting, Ana have realized people spend their lives filling up expectations that are not aligned with who they are. And people are not fulfilled.  She has dedicated her career to help people find center again, to be able to accomplish what is really meaningful.

“I am all about Empathy at this moment. I want to be able to multiply empathy, because i understand connection is the best way to raise our society’s wellbeing.”