Doing the work as a care provider to get comfortable with sexual intimacy in the birth space – Debra Pascali-Bonaro – Mini

By  Elena

Straight from the mouth of the orgasmic birth goddess herself. This interview is with Debra Pascali-Bonaro the founder of OrgasmicBirth.com.

We cover

the definition of orgasmic birth (from a blissful joy, to the elusive birth-gasm)

the importance of a great birth team

her holding me while I work through some of MY anger at the system

the realization that even cesarian births can be orgasmic

the importance of the couple connection

Debra Pascali-Bonaro is a world-renowned inspirational speaker, filmmaker, doula trainer, childbirth educator, and author.  

Debra’s latest book, an Amazon #1 New Release, The Ultimate Guide to Sex After Baby: Secrets to Love and Intimacy brings together her passion for pleasure in every aspect of life with her Jersey-Girl attitude of talking about what no one is talking about!  

She is Director of the award-winning documentary Orgasmic Birth: The Best-Kept Secret, co-writer of “Orgasmic Birth: Your Guide to a Safe, Satisfying and Pleasurable Birth” and Creatrix of the revolutionary online childbirth class Pleasurable Birth Essentials, which prepares expectant parents to be positively prepared for birth and focuses on the intimate and sexual nature of birth. 

Debra’s passion comes from her over 30 years of working with women, men, midwives, doulas, physicians and nurses in over 40 countries bringing comfort, love, and pleasure to birth and life!  

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About Your Host:


As a single parent for many years, Elena knows what it's like to live in daily overwhelm that seems it will never end. After suffering from severe post-partum depression for 5 years, and an abusive relationship that she couldn't seem to quit, Elena developed a case of seriously self destructive self talk about being a "horrible mother". She knew she needed to do something different, but couldn't seem to shake old patterns. She started to experiment with the few things that HAD been working to bring her more peace, and combined them into one power packed (and quick) experience, to help find that inner peace, and make progress towards her goal of ACTUALLY feeling like a good mom. Through these tracks she's been able to stop experiencing irrational anger towards child, is no longer experiencing mental health challenges, and has even attracted a wonderful man into her life who is a great father to her son and a dream come true. Now she works to help other mothers to manage and reduce their stress, build healthier relationships, stop sounding like their mothers, and live lives they once only dreamed of.

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