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2. None of our classes, programs or sessions offer medical advice, treat or prescribe. Viewers should make their own independent inquiries and judgments before acting on any information it contains.

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4. The practices shared here are not overseen by any regulated medical practice or a practice that diagnoses or treats illnesses of body or mind, though it may be a complement to such practices. We do not claim to diagnose or treat illnesses of body or mind, as these approaches simply help to target blocked energy patterns in the body and in the brain to optimize the person’s well-being, soul path, and spiritual journey.

5. Spiritual Healing and Energy modalities are considered experimental by most members of the medical profession at large.

6. Any exploration of one’s life journeys from past or current situations or difficulties — or any and all other personal development approaches —may bring forward or arise such memories or emotions to surface. While these may be stepping stones on the path of spiritual revelation and personal development, the individual undertaking such exploration assumes any and all associated risks.

7. Although the workshops, classes or certifications presented on this website are viewed as non-invasive interventions, any modality that frees energies that have been blocked may and could cause mild reactions such as nausea, headaches, or temporary body pains as the energies begin to move and reset themselves. While such reactions should be noted and common-sense assessments made, they often indicate that the procedures are working and benefits will persist after the discomfort has passed as little as 24 to 72 hours.

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Somedays the kids drive you crazy! It's the little things we do EVERY DAY that support you or leave you exhausted.  You get angry at them when they fight, complain, or ask for your attention CONSTANTLY.   It feels like it's never ending.  

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